Couples Struggling to Get on the Same Financial Page

A couple came to us because they were earning more than ever but still struggling to agree on how to manage their money and make progress toward their shared goals.

Couple reviewing financial documents together at a kitchen table

The Situation

  • Both 39 years old, married with two young children
  • Combined annual income of approximately $450K
  • Maintained separate checking and investment accounts with no coordinated investment strategy
  • One spouse was a significant saver while the other prioritized spending on travel, home improvements, and experiences
  • $900K mortgage on their primary residence
  • $180K remaining in student loans between both spouses
  • Multiple retirement accounts from previous employers that had never been consolidated
  • $250K held in cash across several bank accounts
  • Contributing to college savings accounts but had never determined an appropriate funding target
  • Different views on when they could afford to retire
  • No comprehensive estate plan or coordinated insurance strategy

Our Approach

  • Created a complete household balance sheet combining assets, liabilities, income, and cash flow
  • Established shared financial priorities and separated short-term spending goals from long-term wealth-building goals
  • Developed a coordinated investment strategy across both spouses' accounts
  • Determined an appropriate cash reserve and put excess cash to work based on their goals and time horizon
  • Evaluated student loan repayment versus investment opportunities
  • Consolidated and optimized retirement accounts from previous employers
  • Built financial planning projections around retirement, education funding, home expenses, and lifestyle goals
  • Established a regular financial review process to keep both partners engaged and accountable

Collaborating with Specialists

  • Worked with their CPA to coordinate tax planning, retirement contributions, and investment decisions
  • Introduced them to an estate planning attorney to establish wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and updated beneficiary designations
  • Coordinated with an insurance specialist to review life, disability, and umbrella liability coverage
  • Helped the couple evaluate their employee benefits to ensure they were making the most of available opportunities

Significant Results

  • Created a shared understanding of where they stood financially and where they wanted to go
  • Replaced separate financial decisions with a coordinated household strategy
  • Increased confidence around spending, saving, investing, and major purchases
  • Put excess cash to work while maintaining an appropriate emergency reserve
  • Established a clear framework for retirement and college funding decisions
  • Reduced financial friction by giving both partners a structured way to discuss money and make decisions
  • Built a cohesive team of advisors around the couple's financial life
  • Gave both spouses greater confidence that they were working toward the same future together

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